Advice time

Posted by: Bow Down

I am fairly new at this situation. I don’t frequently go to peoples houses for dinner. There are a few reasons for this, but the main reason is I can’t handle not knowing their hygiene habits. I get super sick feeling if it doesn’t seem like they wash their dishes good or if they don’t wash their hands. However what I find the absolute worst is people with dogs. People don’t seem to think that they shouldn’t pet their nasty ass dog and then cook my dinner. This weekend I went to dinner with my husband and I was apprehensive for many reasons. I’ll get to the rest later but the first was their dogs. Aside from the fact that their dogs were jumping all up on me they were also licking all over their owner and she was petting them and touching their mouths. After that she walked over and put her hands in a bag of cheese and sprinkled it on the salad and then she touched the desert. She basically touched everything in the house with dog hands. I started to get itchy and I thought my throat was going to swell shut from the horror. The next day I was afraid I would cough up a fur ball. One friends said she would have asked if they were going to wash their hands, which I guess would have been fine, accept half the meal was already done and in the oven, I can’t make her go back and wash out the dog cooties from that meal you know.

My next problem was what if I don’t like it. In both of these situations what do I do? Do I force it down, say I’m just not feeling well but can I take it to go or what? The hardest part of all is when it’s not good but it’s not bad. Meaning it has no real flavor or taste or seasoning. Does a simple, it was good do, or am I supposed to gush over it or what? I love to cook. It’s my passion. It is important to me and I take pride in my meals. You can’t imagine how hard it is for me not to correct the meal. Imagine an English teacher sitting in a room full of people who have awful grammar. It is sooo hard not to correct them, well that is how it feels for me.

Finally, how do you go about telling someone your food preferences? How do I say, well my husband doesn’t eat this this or this and I don’t eat this this or that and still expect them to cook a meal for us. Ugggg.

...What Do I Do?

Posted by: FingRockStar

So at work....
we'll call her: Princess
She's gone thru a real real bad time lately....and I can understand not wanting to eat because your too stressed and just can't fathom swallowing something down when all you feel like is throwing up.
And no I'm not talking pregnancy here. There are two separate issuses at hand with her. I'm only speaking of one here.
I'm talking about being SO depressed you don't eat, sleep, think, etc. I'm talking about being so lost within yourself you can't take care of you, or anything else around you.
Well, she's now looking anorexic....even more so like she's doing drugs (which she's not believe me)
It's become so unhealthy and still she refuses to eat. The bigger problem is: She thinks she looks good! Everytime you say: "Let's go eat" She covers her mouth and says "errpptt food!" (acting like she's gonna throw up)
So... HOW do you approch somebody, and tell them. "You LOOK LIKE SHIT! You need to eat!!" ??