Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Really annoyed.....

I'll put you in the picture first. One of the guys who works for me is hugely over weight he weighs min 25stone approx 160kg i think. His wife is even bigger, they must eat loads but according to them they are on a diet! Even says he goes to they gym, he gets out of breath walking the stairs and sweats loads to the point that he hair sticks to his face. Got the picture by now....hes quite foul!

In the UK we pay taxes from out wages for our National Health Service (NHS), it looks like we get care for free to but we don't, me and my husband due to the wage bracket we fall into pay 42% of our income on tax! GRRRHHHHHHH! ( i know its different all over the world)

Anyway the point of this post and i am sorry if i offend anyone, i don't have issues with people been fat, i am not as thin as I'd like to be!

IVF is free for 2 tries on NHS which i think is great!

The fattys cant get preg, trying for 2yrs, never lost any weight during this time, maybe it the weight that is stopping them??? Or their very poor life style??? ONLY MY OPINION! Anyway the docs have given them tests and found no reason why she's not got PG. So they are now going to have IVF but she needs to loose 2 stone before she can have IVF, only 2stone=12kg!! She def weighs more than him so this is bloody miscule amount to loose! I even bet they have gained weight during the 2yrs!

So all day i have heard that its back to see the docs tom but shes only lost half a stone but they are going to try and convince the doc to give them a try! If she wanted a baby that much she'd have lost weight! I have felt like shouting that at him all day!!!!! He has just gone on and on and on.......

I have a friend, who's have done everything she can to have a baby, everything suggested and had their free IVF and paid for 2 rounds, granted they now have a baby girl but they did everything humanly poss to have a baby. My other friend had two rounds of IVF and got PG second time to find out baby wasn't alive at 12wk scan and since paid for 3rounds and not got PG and she did everything poss to get PG! AND THEN THERE IS THE FATTYS WHO THINK THEY SHOULDN'T HAVE TO DO ANYTHING TO HAVE A CHILD!

Selfish!!! Or am i been too hard on them??? My husband thinks i a been too judgemental!

4 comments:

BOW DOWN said...

this shit pisses me off. i hate when people who dont' appreciate it get babies. plus if they are that over weight (i have no idea what a stone is or kilo's) what kind of parents can they really be. I got pregnant after one try this time because i lost so much weight. i can't believe they wouldn't make a larger effort to lose weight if having a child is what they really want. to me it sounds like eating is what they really want!

Anonymous said...

Had to look it up......a stone is 14 pounds.

Jen said...
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Anonymous said...

I really think that weight has a LOT to do with getting pregnant. If nothing else it is because of weight. Why do these people think that they should have a child when they are so CLEARLY unhealthy? They need to think about their health for both themselves and their children. There are family members on both mine and my husband's side of the family that were/are extremely obese- and when they had kids- guess what? Their KIDS were/are extremely obese. It's just not healthy.

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